‘虎妈’读后感

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篇1:《虎妈》读后感

《虎妈》读后感

读《虎妈》,是在矛盾的思想斗争中阅读。 她是充满斗志、满怀勇气、敢于为给予孩子自己认为对孩子最好的生活方式而任劳任怨的可敬妈妈; 她也是对生活和身边人充满苛求、连对宠物狗都怀有期望值、让自己很累别人也很累的神经质女人。   一方面是只有父母严格引导、维系父母在家庭的绝对权威才能产生优秀的孩子的传统东方家庭理念; 另一方面是只有让孩子个性自由发挥、在孩子自己热爱的事务上才能产生身心健康孩子的西方观点。   有人说,快乐的人生必须是值得骄傲的人生,而值得骄傲的人生只有经历磨炼才能得到。 有人说,快乐的人生必须放飞心灵、潇洒不羁、率性而为、不畏人言,追求内心真实的声音。   经历过被父母的高期望值和家庭的'绝对权威压着而严格要求自己、虽品学兼优但甚少快乐的童年, 也走过随心选择跳出既定圈子、充满挑战但在自由、压力和历练中找回自信的青年时期, 如今身为人母,《虎妈》的思考自然也是自己的思考,该给予孩子一种什么样的生活方式?   文章给我最好的启发大概是, 每个孩子都是不一样的独立个体,倾听她的声音和表达你的声音一样重要,即便在爱的前提下交流比说教更好。 但作为妈妈,应该有勇气帮助孩子找到什么是对她最好的,不因害怕批评或误解而放弃帮助她选择最好的决心。 当然,前提是自己真的领悟人生,而且身体力行。所以更要不断学习,认真工作,为成为更好的自己而努力。

篇2:‘虎妈’读后感

‘虎妈’读后感

首先要说的是,这是一本很有趣味,可读性很强的书。友人星期六那天早上送给我这本书,白天断断续续读了几页,到晚上孩子们睡下了以后,才真正开始认真读,一发不可收拾,一直读到将近两点。其间豆爸数次试图关灯预警,均被我抗议抵制。   关于这本书的讨论,自从 new york times 高调发表“why chinese parenting is superior?” 来推销此书,所激发的膜拜,支持,反思,讨论,反对,鞭挞,诋毁(基本上scale from 1-10, 各种态度都能找到),实在是铺天盖地。这样的热度,实在不该由一本:某一个妈妈的近乎“流水帐”式的,回忆式的,且没有定论的 C 书,所引起。   此书的魅力(对于支持者),和魔力(对于反对者),究竟在何处?真正读这本书之前,我看到很多之零片断的评论,赞同的少,反对的多。以至于我没看书已经对此书有了偏见。在所有的评论当中,把这本书上升到“国际”,和“民族”的高度的,是这样一句话:“这本书之所以引发了美国人(注∶指非华人)的恐慌,因为它涉及了美国人现今两大痛脚:中国,和,教育。”WOW!!!   看完书之后,我最先有的感慨,就是:如果我没有认真地看过此书,我不应该发表任何评论。因为根据别人的有偏见的引用的片断,而得出的结论,一定是偏见的。想知道真相如何,一定要自己先看到全貌,虽然我仍然会得出因为自身立场不同和经历有限,而肯定是偏见的看法,至少不是咀嚼别人已经消化过的材料,再吐出更加没有营养的东西。(为之前曾发出的不负责任的声音,鄙视自己一把。)   言归正传,说说我该归于从膜拜到诋毁这个坐标的那一点。我想对虎妈这个人的看法,我应该属于反省(自己)的`那部分人,偏向虎妈那一边。对孩子的教育的看法,基本上是反对的,离虎妈就远了。   先说说对虎妈这个人的看法。她是个对自己要求很高的人,非常地勤奋和刻苦,在事业上和孩子的教育上,她都投入了自己120%的精力。她的代价,是自己的娱乐和睡眠。作为一个事业上成功(所以忙碌)的全职妈妈,她在孩子们身上花的时间和精力,估计让大多数的妈妈们汗颜。举个例子,虎妈决定让二女儿lulu学小提琴。她自己最初并不懂这门乐器。于是她用学术研究的态度来学习了解。她描述自己在这上面所花的时间和精力, 绝非为了炫耀。那是她做人做事的态度:既然做了,就要做到最好! 最终她可以在家里以专家的(而不是以妈妈的)身份来监督孩子练琴。不夸张的说,她在“练琴”上所花的时间,比孩子可多得太多了。不光在孩子练琴的时候全身心陪伴,晚间还要研究乐谱(作为孩子的副教练),考虑孩子的老师和演出安排等问题(作为孩子的经纪人)。这种付出,贯穿两个孩子的成长历程,绝非常人所能。所以,虎妈所发出的“胜利的战歌 ”,从这一点上看,绝对有资格向我奏响。我看到虎妈所列出的每日日程表,再对照自己每日分配在孩子身上的时间,想到自己很多时候出于自私的生活安排,实在羞愧。   很多对虎妈的否定甚至诋毁,用“株心”的方式:“她还不是为了自己才这样? ”,肯定是爱面子,孩子成功了自己好看! ”,“为了出名,把自己的孩子置于媒体的灯光下,太自私了! ”。如果不是虎妈自己家庭的富裕,恐怕很多人要说是为了把孩子培养成摇钱树了。这种以小人之心猜测对方“动机”来否定甚至诋毁人的办法,实在是太拙略的表演。我觉得自己最初对虎妈的成绩和高调的战歌,本能所产生的反感,多多少少是相形见龊后的一种恐慌。在恐慌之中,制造一种株心论调来否定对方,似乎是最直接的反应了。如果看到别人类似的否定,就更有“正合我意”的快感了。这样分析自己有点残忍,却是真实的。   我总觉得,如果我自己不能在提升自己(包括事业,个人修养)和陪伴孩子方面,与虎妈匹配,我实在是没有权利对她的教育方式的技术层面指手画脚。但是客观的来讲,确实不能因为肯定了妈妈这个人付出的努力,和她的良好意愿,就全盘肯定她教育方法的正确。不管如何,如果我是个孩子,我绝不会愿意有一个虎妈这样强势和专制的妈妈。我也不认为,虎妈的两个孩子,回忆起自己的童年时候,是温馨和无憾的。实际上,这是一本没有结论的书,从世俗的意义上,“胜利的红旗飘扬 ”,虎妈的两个女儿是当之无愧的天才儿童。但是,如果孩子们自己怀疑,排斥甚至抗争这样的结果,这是‘谁 ’或者‘什莫 ’意义上的成功呢?教育孩子的初始,伴随着成果,虎妈是骄傲的,也是自信的,战歌是高昂的。但是在结尾,虎妈对孩子们成年之后所给的回馈,失望之余有了很多的对自己和自己的教育方式的反省。她开始(被迫)给同样强势的正处在青春期反叛的二女儿lulu,更多的自由去选择,而不是按照自己认为的最好的人生安排去强迫执行。这种变通,发生在虎妈经历了自己妹妹面临绝症后所引发的对人生的自省,和与叛逆的lulu在人生安排上激烈碰撞,两败俱伤之后。实际上是另一种形式的虎妈的反省和自敛骄傲。   不管如何,我现在明白了为什莫这样一本书激发了这莫多的反响。它像一面镜子,照出了父母和不是父母的;对孩子的教育有负担的读者:心中的恐慌,自省,反弹和忧虑。对照自己的教育方式,每个人应该都有话要说。

篇3:虎妈战歌读后感

虎妈战歌读后感

阅读此书前,虎妈的名头早有耳闻,她的事例在互联网上沸沸扬扬,媒体对她的评价褒贬不一,她的教育方法轰动了美国教育界,并引起美国关于中美教育方法的大讨论,甚至登上美国《时代》周刊封面。

看完此书,我认为,虎妈的许多做法是值得学习的。

一、克服惰性。人性中总有趋利避害、追求一时享乐的惰性,特别是思想不成熟的孩子们,如果没有成年人的适当引导和督促,他们很难克服人性中的惰性,很多孩子玩游戏成瘾、贪玩厌学,都是因为克服不了惰性造成的。虎妈要求女儿每科成绩A、不准看电视、琴练不好就不准吃饭等,在很多媒体和专家眼中,这好像严厉得过分,剥夺了孩子幸福的童年,但是,玩乐永远比学习轻松,学习总会伴随着刻苦,人生总会需要告别散漫,进入激烈竞争、努力奋进的阶段,但我记得有一位家长这么回答一位专家的质疑:“我为什么剥夺孩子的童年?我如果给了孩子幸福的童年,他将失去幸福的'人生!”美国许多媒体对虎妈式的教育方法全盘否定,但美国哈佛图书馆馆训中却有醒目的这几条:

1、此刻打盹,你将做梦;而此刻学习,你将圆梦。

2、学习这件事,不是缺乏时间,而是缺乏努力。

3、学习时的苦痛是暂时的,未学到的痛苦是终生的。

4、学习并不是人生的全部。但,既然连人生的一部分――学习也无法征服,还能做什么呢?

5、谁也不能随随便便成功,它来自彻底的自我管理和毅力。

6、教育程度代表收入。

7、我荒废的今日,正是昨天殒身之人祈求的明日。

一个人,只有征服了自己,才能征服全世界;一个人,只有克服了自己的惰性,才能取得成功。

二、持之以恒:虎妈最让人钦佩的一点是,她做事持之以恒,她十几年如一日、严格执行着自己的教育计划,她可以天天督促孩子练琴,不仅要求孩子保证练习时间和练习质量,而且她也在一旁监督,并冷静、理智地对待孩子的逆反,和孩子一起分析问题,一起解决困难,她可以驱车9个小时带孩子拜访名师,还可以带着孩子游遍世界各地、为孩子举办大型个人演奏会,这些,都需要家长和孩子坚持不懈、日积月累的付出和努力。反思自己,有好的想法和方式,但总是几分钟热度,时间一长,就坚持不下来了,所以,教育的效果就总是不理想。

《虎妈战歌》很真实,它真实地记录了一个中国式家庭的教育方式,它真实记录了家长的严厉、孩子的反抗,记录了家长的无奈、孩子的逆反,记录了家长的爱、孩子的成长,它不仅记录了成功,也记录了失败,它不仅记录了家庭的温馨和快乐,也记录了中国式家长在孩子成长过程中的焦躁和近乎简单粗暴的言行,正是因为它也把这些不那么美好的东西呈现在人们眼前,所以,真实得那么可爱。

虎妈的教育方式可能不是完全成功的,也不一定适用于所有孩子,但有很多地方值得学习借鉴。从外在形式上看,虎妈的两个女儿收到了世界名校的录取通知书,这吻合了中国式家长对孩子的期望;但我认为,虎妈的教育方式最有价值的是她对孩子行为性格的培养和训练:刻苦努力、不轻言放弃、努力奋进;我相信,无论何时何地,无论什么人种,也无论什么意识形态,真诚善良、乐观向上、努力奋进是所有人都钦佩的,这恰恰是虎妈的教育方式的成功之处!

篇4:虎妈战歌读后感

因为我的爸爸妈妈对我是宠爱,他们愿意放手让我自己做决定,所以我不愿意去看虎妈战歌。而当我拿到虎妈战歌这本书后,我第一念头便是批判,是的,我怀着批判的心态去阅读这本书。

看到虎妈的十条家规,我觉得只是一个比普通妈妈更加严格的妈妈。不许在外过夜,我赞同,毕竟社会并不如想象中的简单;不许卖弄琴艺,不许抱怨不能在学校里演奏,不许经常看电视玩电脑游戏,不许只有体育文艺拔尖,其他科目平平,不许任何一门功课学习成绩低于“A”,必须天天练习钢琴或小提琴,这些是中国大多数家庭都会有的规矩,我并不反感。但是,不许选择自己喜欢的课外活动,不许演奏其他乐器,说实话,我不喜欢这两条,似乎太过限制孩子的天性。不过,当我阅读完这本书,我改观了。

也许很多人都会和我以前一样,觉得虎妈就是一个虐杀儿童天性的人,可是,我们却忘了孩子,不过是一个心智不成熟的人,容易听信别人的话,盲目从众,好奇心重,等等一列不够成熟,不足以做能影响其一生的决定。决定由谁做?老师?NO,一位老师,要教多少个学生,怎么可能一一了解孩子的性情,怎么可能一一帮孩子找出最适合他的东西?那么,谁做决定?最了解孩子的,无非是孩子的父母,孩子从小在父母身边长大,所以,他们最了解孩子,知道孩子需要的是什么,什么对他才是最好的,所以,儿童时代,应由父母结合孩子的性情所决定。所以我不认为,虎妈在这方面的做法有什么过分的。

我特别赞同虎妈让女儿们学钢琴这一做法。虎妈是这样说的,‘我知道,我无法让她们因为生在贫苦的移民家庭而发奋努力。我不能改变生活的现状――我们居住在一所老式的大房子里;有两辆体面的汽车;出门度假时,住在高档的宾馆里。但我确信无疑的是,与我和我的父母相比,索菲娅和露露能接受到更好的教育且更具可塑性。而古典音乐不会让人堕落、不会令人懒惰、不会教人粗鲁,也不会宠坏孩子。相反,它会鞭策我的孩子达成我未能企及的目标,而它与我们祖先光宗耀祖的文化传统紧密相连。’

钢琴陶冶孩子的情操,可以避免浮躁。且不论钢琴的奖项有多少,孩子能获得的艺术技能有多少,能够让孩子的情操陶冶,提高个人修养,锻炼耐力和信心,这些还不够让孩子受益一生吗?何况,学钢琴的好处完全不止这些。虽然露露一开始,并不爱学钢琴,但后来虎妈的严格教育之下,她的收获并不少,并且后来选择她钟爱的网球。

我有一个妹妹,她的爸爸对她特别严格,要求也高,但可惜,他忘了在让孩子成绩好的同时,要培养孩子的技能,陶冶情操。以前她很喜欢画画,但被她的爸爸遏止了。现在这个妹妹,除了学习看书,其他一无所长。如果带她听音乐会或者看画展,她也只会肤浅的说,好看,好听,不好看,不好听,对画说或多或少懂一些,但也只能说皮毛中的皮毛。我认为在培养孩子,教育孩子的时候,必须先养性情,培养技能,再谈学习,而且这些技能不能是浮夸的(例如爵士乐),要让孩子学会沉淀,学会耐心,陶冶性情才是最真,最好的。

看完这本书,我对虎妈某些教育方式(批评的言语)也许还不是特别赞同,可是,不能否认,她很成功,她的严格要求是有意义。

但是我做不到虎妈般的教育方式,100个孩子,有100中教育方式,虎妈的教育方式适用于索非亚和露露,但未必适合其他人。我们不能找葫芦画瓢,硬搬硬套,取长补短,必定能让未来成为教师的我们受益匪浅。

篇5:虎妈战歌英文读后感

I have recently read Battle Hymn of Tiger Mother published by The Penguin Press. This autobiography was written by the Chinese American woman Amy Chua, a tenured professor in Yale Law School. She causes a sensation because her strict but unique parenting which brings excellent performance of her two daughters.

This autobiography tells the course of Amy Chua how she raised the two daughters in Chinese parenting way. It is divided into three parts. At the first part, it gives some introductions of the two daughters, the family. And in the second and third parts, the writer tells more details in the process of raising her two different daughters and the difficulties she was confronted in the process, and most importantly the success the daughters achieved in music which brought Amy Chua pride as well as the whole family.

To some extent, I don’t like Amy’s parenting in some aspects. In my opinion, she deprived the nature of children and pushed too much pressure on their children, especially on Lulu who was under the shadow of her excellent elder daughter—Sophia. While I was reading the third part in the rebellion part, I couldn’t control my own emotion, I felt what Lulu felt and even hated against her selfish and autocratic mother. I couldn’t understand why Amy didn’t let Lulu get up from sit, for water, not even to go to the bathroom when Lulu just wanted a rest during the long hours’ practice of violin. She made Lulu practice violin all day during the family’s vacation abroad. She spoiled the vacation by letting the other family members waiting the practice. She was unreasonable.

But next what I do is to admire her.

There is an old Chinese saying “property can never last for three generations”.But Amy Chua did change it! Her parents came to U.S and suffered a tough life at the very beginning. They taught Amy math and piano in an extreme strict way when she was a kid. Under the influence of her parents, now Amy is frugal and pretty strict with her daughters and herself. They are the valuable points of her. Although she is so extreme on her parenting, she has the advisable ideas that the parents and the parents to be to learn.

Firstly, as parents, they couldn’t ignore their children and put all focus on their job. There is no excuse for not concerning their children. Except supervising her daughters, Amy Chua has to give lessons in university, write books and handle the family chores. She is so busy, but she doesn’t ignore the daughters.

Secondly, parents should be strict with their children especially when they are kids because kids lack of self-control. They should not indulge their children in internet or sleepovers.

Thirdly, parents should master some skills in parenting. As a matter of fact, there are so many Chinese parents who are strict with their children with no avail of success. Success can’t be totally copied, because some parents ignore the skills in parenting. When their children don’t follow their will or perform well enough to satisfy them, they will lose their temper and even beat their children, yes, of course, Amy Chua will be mad but she won’t beat her daughters, in this condition, she will be sober and wait until her daughters perform well enough. She learnt some music knowledge in her children’s class and supervised them patiently. She knew where to correct the mistakes and gave the children extraordinary success.

Tiger mother aroused a big heat in parenting and threw such an important issue for us to think about. Battle Hymn of Tiger Mother gives us really some enlightenment. Anyway, that’s a really unique experience in reading this book.

篇6:虎妈战歌英文读后感

Earlier this year, a book on parenting memoir of the tiger mother battle hymn sensation in the United States, sparking a heated debate about education thought idea, this also caused wide attention of the Chinese people.

The author Amy chua, a chinese-american, Harvard University, bachelor of arts and doctor of law, the Yale university professor. Approximate the sheep in Europe and the relaxation education situation, Ms. Chua in Chinese parents“ high expectations and strict parenting to two children.

Finally two children are outstanding, learning and music are all very good, is the envy of achievements, locally known as music child prodigy. The tiger mother warsong revealing the author experienced a course of raising two children and parenting experience.

Read the book, page by page feel Amy chua education child”s real and true feelings, amazing chua“s devotion and dedication, experience the extraordinary Cai Meier and absolute, step by step into the joys and sorrows of the author, Amy chua and her two children image lifelike show in sight.

Cai Meier writes:

Become an expert, actually there is no fun at all. Any skills to master, must pay the hard work. And from the nature of children, never love. Therefore, the beginning don”t give them opportunities to choose don“t work hard, it becomes crucial.

Don”t give children choose not to opportunity, became the basic idea and starting point of the Cai Meier parenting. Nothing is born like hard. The children more love with open arms to embrace. American education special emphasis on respect for the child, often give children the right to choose. As a result, many children will choose to give up very easily. And as a parent, the most unfavorable to protect the behavior of the child“s self-esteem, is to see their children gave up the attempt in the face of hardship, but their inaction.

Don”t give children choose don“t work hard, is to help children choose to chance. Let the child choose a meaningful things, then concentration and strength to rush toward, perseverance. Actually, the process itself, the children can benefit from life. Develop children treatment enterprise concentration and strength to rush toward, perseverance attitude and will quality, this is the direction of chua”s parenting. Don“t give children choose don”t work hard, this is really a parenting is the best choice. Strict management and supervision, it is Amy chua“s parenting patterns, Chinese traditional education mode is Amy chua said.

篇7:虎妈战歌的读后感

虎妈战歌的读后感

今天看了虎妈战歌,因为在等兔爸爸下班。 里面的虎妈是一个从祖父辈开始在菲律宾生活的人,但是为了表现自己和“佣人国”完全不搭界,疯狂的叫自己中国人。 从虎妈的父亲辈开始就是目标非常明确,缺乏对小孩的爱的家长。把回家孩子给自己拿拖鞋作为规矩来执行的家长。 也不理会孩子的爱好和特长。然后到了虎妈就变本加厉,强迫的把自己的标准和原则强加给自己的女儿。 还好他的女儿也继承了犹太人的聪明,在应付虎妈上虽然反抗,但最后只能妥协。 我总觉得这样的孩子长大了,虽然有自己的技能可以生活得很好,但是不一定能认真地热爱生活。 我小的时候希望过能学钢琴和象棋,但是我的'妈妈没有给我这样的环境。她固执的认为只要能好好学习,读博士就能过上不错的生活。在我年纪越来越大的时候,我就慢慢地体会到,人要是有一技之长,哪怕是无聊的时候安慰自己都是非常不错的选择。 在尊重孩子和强迫孩子之间,并不是非常容易的选择。我慢慢开始后悔在我童年的时候,都浪费了多少宝贵的时光。也觉得这个国家的教育制度,正在让我们的孩子们浪费更多的宝贵时光。 我可怜的小外甥女,就是在重重压力面前,从小学就没有休息的,马不停蹄的上各种辅导班,她的爷爷望女成龙的帮她排满整个假期的计划,丝毫没有喘息的机会。以至于小孩最后没有一样是自己喜欢的学习。 我现在回忆我自己的童年,除了犯傻就是浪费了不少的时间。

篇8:虎妈战歌英语读后感

虎妈战歌英语读后感

Earlier this year, a book on parenting memoir of the tiger mother battle hymn sensation in the United States, sparking a heated debate about education thought idea, this also caused wide attention of the Chinese people.

The author Amy chua, a chinese-american, Harvard University, bachelor of arts and doctor of law, the Yale university professor. Approximate the sheep in Europe and the relaxation education situation, Ms. Chua in Chinese parents' high expectations and strict parenting to two children

Finally two children are outstanding, learning and music are all very good, is the envy of achievements, locally known as music child prodigy. The tiger mother warsong ”revealing the author experienced a course of raising two children and parenting experience.

Read the book, page by page feel Amy chua education child's real and true feelings, amazing chua's devotion and dedication, experience the extraordinary Cai Meier and absolute, step by step into the joys and sorrows of the author, Amy chua and her two children image lifelike show in sight.

Cai Meier writes:

Become an “expert, actually there is no fun at all. Any skills to master, must pay the hard work. And from the nature of children, never love. Therefore, the beginning don't give them opportunities to choose don't work hard, it becomes crucial.”

“Don't give children choose not to opportunity”, became the basic idea and starting point of the Cai Meier parenting. Nothing is born like hard. The children more love with open arms to embrace. American education special emphasis on respect for the child, often give children the right to choose. As a result, many children will choose to give up very easily. And as a parent, the most unfavorable to protect the behavior of the child's self-esteem, is to see their children gave up the attempt in the face of hardship, but their inaction.

Don't give children choose don't work hard, is to help children choose to chance. Let the child choose a meaningful things, then concentration and strength to rush toward, perseverance. Actually, the process itself, the children can benefit from life. Develop children treatment enterprise “concentration and strength to rush toward, perseverance” attitude and will quality, this is the direction of chua's parenting. Don't give children choose don't work hard, this is really a parenting is the best choice. Strict management and supervision, it is Amy chua's parenting patterns, Chinese traditional education mode is Amy chua said.

篇9:虎妈战歌英语读后感

I have recently read Battle Hymn of Tiger Mother published by The Penguin Press in 2011. This autobiography was written by the Chinese American woman Amy Chua, a tenured professor in Yale Law School. She causes a sensation because her strict but unique parenting which brings excellent performance of her two daughters.

This autobiography tells the course of Amy Chua how she raised the two daughters in Chinese parenting way. It is divided into three parts. At the first part, it gives some introductions of the two daughters, the family. And in the second and third parts, the writer tells more details in the process of raising her two different daughters and the difficulties she was confronted in the process, and most importantly the success the daughters achieved in music which brought Amy Chua pride as well as the whole family.

To some extent, I don’t like Amy’s parenting in some aspects. In my opinion, she deprived the nature of children and pushed too much pressure on their children, especially on Lulu who was under the shadow of her excellent elder daughter—Sophia. While I was reading the third part in the rebellion part, I couldn’t control my own emotion, I felt what Lulu felt and even hated against her selfish and autocratic mother. I couldn’t understand why Amy didn’t let Lulu get up from sit, for water, not even to go to the bathroom when Lulu just wanted a rest during the long hours’ practice of violin. She made Lulu practice violin all day during the family’s vacation abroad. She spoiled the vacation by letting the other family members waiting the practice. She was unreasonable.

But next what I do is to admire her.

There is an old Chinese saying “property can never last for three generations”。 But Amy Chua did change it! Her parents came to U.S and suffered a tough life at the very beginning. They taught Amy math and piano in an extreme strict way when she was a kid. Under the influence of her parents, now Amy is frugal and pretty strict with her daughters and herself. They are the valuable points of her. Although she is so extreme on her parenting, she has the advisable ideas that the parents and the parents to be to learn.

Firstly, as parents, they couldn’t ignore their children and put all focus on their job. There is no excuse for not concerning their children. Except supervising her daughters, Amy Chua has to give lessons in university, write books and handle the family chores. She is so busy, but she doesn’t ignore the daughters.

Secondly, parents should be strict with their children especially when they are kids because kids lack of self-control. They should not indulge their children in internet or sleepovers.

Thirdly, parents should master some skills in parenting. As a matter of fact, there are so many Chinese parents who are strict with their children with no avail of success. Success can’t be totally copied, because some parents ignore the skills in parenting. When their children don’t follow their will or perform well enough to satisfy them, they will lose their temper and even beat their children, yes, of course, Amy Chua will be mad but she won’t beat her daughters, in this condition, she will be sober and wait until her daughters perform well enough. She learnt some music knowledge in her children’s class and supervised them patiently. She knew where to correct the mistakes and gave the children extraordinary success.

Tiger mother aroused a big heat in parenting and threw such an important issue for us to think about. Battle Hymn of Tiger Mother gives us really some enlightenment. Anyway, that’s a really unique experience in reading this book.

篇10:虎妈战歌英文读后感

虎妈战歌英文读后感

I have recently read Battle Hymn of Tiger Mother published by The Penguin Press in 20xx. This autobiography was written by the Chinese American woman Amy Chua, a tenured professor in Yale Law School. She causes a sensation because her strict but unique parenting which brings excellent performance of her two daughters.

This autobiography tells the course of Amy Chua how she raised the two daughters in Chinese parenting way. It is divided into three parts. At the first part, it gives some introductions of the two daughters, the family. And in the second and third parts, the writer tells more details in the process of raising her two different daughters and the difficulties she was confronted in the process, and most importantly the success the daughters achieved in music which brought Amy Chua pride as well as the whole family.

To some extent, I don’t like Amy’s parenting in some aspects. In my opinion, she deprived the nature of children and pushed too much pressure on their children, especially on Lulu who was under the shadow of her excellent elder daughter—Sophia. While I was reading the third part in the rebellion part, I couldn’t control my own emotion, I felt what Lulu felt and even hated against her selfish and autocratic mother. I couldn’t understand why Amy didn’t let Lulu get up from sit, for water, not even to go to the bathroom when Lulu just wanted a rest during the long hours’ practice of violin. She made Lulu practice violin all day during the family’s vacation abroad. She spoiled the vacation by letting the other family members waiting the practice. She was unreasonable.

But next what I do is to admire her.

There is an old Chinese saying “property can never last for three generations”。 But Amy Chua did change it! Her parents came to U.S and suffered a tough life at the very beginning. They taught Amy math and piano in an extreme strict way when she was a kid. Under the influence of her parents, now Amy is frugal and pretty strict with her daughters and herself. They are the valuable points of her. Although she is so extreme on her parenting, she has the advisable ideas that the parents and the parents to be to learn.

Firstly, as parents, they couldn’t ignore their children and put all focus on their job. There is no excuse for not concerning their children. Except supervising her daughters, Amy Chua has to give lessons in university, write books and handle the family chores. She is so busy, but she doesn’t ignore the daughters.

Secondly, parents should be strict with their children especially when they are kids because kids lack of self-control. They should not indulge their children in internet or sleepovers.

Thirdly, parents should master some skills in parenting. As a matter of fact, there are so many Chinese parents who are strict with their children with no avail of success. Success can’t be totally copied, because some parents ignore the skills in parenting. When their children don’t follow their will or perform well enough to satisfy them, they will lose their temper and even beat their children, yes, of course, Amy Chua will be mad but she won’t beat her daughters, in this condition, she will be sober and wait until her daughters perform well enough. She learnt some music knowledge in her children’s class and supervised them patiently. She knew where to correct the mistakes and gave the children extraordinary success.

Tiger mother aroused a big heat in parenting and threw such an important issue for us to think about. Battle Hymn of Tiger Mother gives us really some enlightenment. Anyway, that’s a really unique experience in reading this book.

篇11:《虎妈战歌》和我的读后感

《虎妈战歌》和我的读后感

(教育心得篇)   《虎妈战歌》和我的读后感   好几位老美同事跟我提起这个话题,他们感兴趣的,是我作为一个在美华人,读了耶鲁大学法学院华裔教授蔡美儿(Amy Chua)的《虎妈战歌》(“Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother”)后,有什么感想。本来上班挺忙的`,但为了不让老美觉得老中们都是一帮只重学业不顾其他的”nerds”,我还是抽空用英文写了以下的回答,“以正视听”:   The Chinese “Tiger Mom” and my response   Thanks for sharing this article and your opinion. Parenting and education is such an interesting issue. I have also seen the excerpts translated in some Chinese websites. Similarly, the views (and practices) of the author raised quite some debates in those places as well.   A couple of my feedbacks will follow. First of all, bear in mind however, that I think each person should have their own practices and ideas about parenting, because each kid is unique as an individual. The parents may fail miserably if they try to follow others without consideration to their kid’s special circumstances.   My first reaction, just like one quoted in the WSJ, is that “I am in disbelief after reading this article.”   Any attempts to contract and compare the HUGE topic of Chinese and Western practices would be a daunting task. Any generalization would lose the finer details of individual approaches.   The author, while using the excuse of being “the Chinese mother”, finds validation for her strict rules and control tactics for her daughters from the vague and generalized concept of the “Chinese practice.” I, for one, do not feel this represent the true understanding of the Chinese (or Confucian) culture.   A very famous Confucius saying is “因才施教”,  (pinyin: Yin Cai Shi Jiao), that is, teaching or raising a kid according to his or her own strengths (or weaknesses). The author, a professor at Yale Law School, supposedly a successful and smart professional, and educator, seems to forget this basic Chinese educational tenet at home.   Not every child is necessarily good at all these sort of things (violin, piano, math, sciences, etc), not every kid needs to be playing violin or piano that well at that young an age. Yes, among our numerous friends, many of whom are Chinese, there are strict moms, but I don’t think I have come across one who is THAT strict as Amy Chua.   Her actions adhere to the stereotype of “the Chinese mom,” and her writing adds to that myth. How sad!   The author wrote: “For their part, many Chinese secretly believe that they care more about their children and are willing to sacrifice much more for them than Westerners, who seem perfectly content to let their children turn out badly. I think its a misunderstanding on both sides. All decent parents want to do whats best for their children”. She is right in saying that all parents want to do what’s best for their kids, but her writing, and her seemingly strong believe in her own “correctness”, unfortunately adds to that misunderstanding, rather than dispelling it.   My second comment: Now that our son Kevin is in college, I feel we have gone through all the due processes and stages described in Chua’s article. But I think there is more than one road to success, at least other roads than what Chua preached.   In our family, my wife probably stands firmer than me with the rules for our son. But I can say proudly that we didn’t do any of the things described as “must do’s”, such as no sleepover, no play, no TV, no video games, no this or no that. We loved to have Kevin go to sleepovers with his friends when he was little. We encouraged him to participate in sports and/or other school activities. He played quite a bit of video games and watched TV probably as much as his peers. Actually, he probably won quite a bit of friends because he was able to guide classmates in solving some of the games. :=) How can a boy’s childhood be complete if he is not allowed to play games?   Kevin did play piano, and then violin during his teenage years. That caused quite some headaches for us, for he didn’t like to practice. But we never pushed him to practice more than what the private tutors asked for. Other than that, we were probably lucky, because he was quite self disciplined and always managed his school work well.   My third comment: “Don’t compare apples to oranges”. I saw in one of the reader feedbacks, where a reader named “Mike Reiche” wrote that the disparity between Chinese and Western is that out of 1.3 billion Chinese, the top 1% have moved to the US. Out of 300 million US children, 100% are in the US. So when you randomly pick a Chinese family, you are picking from the top 1% and comparing with the general population of western families.   While I don’t totally agree about the “top 1%”, the fact is that most of the Chinese families people come across here in the US probably are typical of such make-ups: mom or dad with PhD degrees from some science or tech fields, or with at least college level education backgrounds. They most likely work in high tech companies, or are doctors, accountants, or businessmen. They are somewhat “cream of the crop” from the rigid education and selection process in China, thus, they tend to place more emphasis on education and would push their kids harder. Chua herself may be the result of such a product, judging from her WSJ article family picture, where she was a new-born with bespectacled parents, who as new immigrants know the difficulty realities of surviving in a new promised land.   Also, though Chua didn’t mentioned in the WSJ excerpt the background of her husband, from my reading she is married to a Jewish person. She mentioned her husband’s Jewish traditions, and had threatened her daughter with “no Hanukkah presents.” I remember people saying Jewish families place education as highly, if not higher, than Chinese families. So when her two poor little girls have parents from the Chinese and Jewish backgrounds, what else can they expect?   As you can tell, I am somewhat critical of Chua’s approach, and am a strong believer that there are merits in both “Chinese” and “Western” approaches, rather than preferring one vs. the other. I believe students need to work hard and take studies seriously, but yes, life is also so much more than just school. And there are so many things to enjoy along the way, that we should not limit ourselves to textbooks, classrooms, recital halls, so let’s dont forget to go to the sports fields, nature and wilderness, volunteer activities, and live a fuller life.   This response has gone a bit too long, because education is one of my favorite topics. You mentioned that Emily and you have had many discussions on this topic. Please feel free to share my response with her, so she sees at least one Chinese parent’s candid view.  

篇12:虎妈战歌的英语读后感

虎妈战歌的英语读后感

I have recently read Battle Hymn of Tiger Mother published by The Penguin Press in 2011. This autobiography was written by the Chinese American woman Amy Chua, a tenured professor in Yale Law School. She causes a sensation because her strict but unique parenting which brings excellent performance of her two daughters.

This autobiography tells the course of Amy Chua how she raised the two daughters in Chinese parenting way. It is divided into three parts. At the first part, it gives some introductions of the two daughters, the family. And in the second and third parts, the writer tells more details in the process of raising her two different daughters and the difficulties she was confronted in the process, and most importantly the success the daughters achieved in music which brought Amy Chua pride as well as the whole family.

To some extent, I don’t like Amy’s parenting in some aspects. In my opinion, she deprived the nature of children and pushed too much pressure on their children, especially on Lulu who was under the shadow of her excellent elder daughter—Sophia. While I was reading the third part in the rebellion part, I couldn’t control my own emotion, I felt what Lulu felt and even hated against her selfish and autocratic mother. I couldn’t understand why Amy didn’t let Lulu get up from sit, for water, not even to go to the bathroom when Lulu just wanted a rest during the long hours’ practice of violin. She made Lulu practice violin all day during the family’s vacation abroad. She spoiled the vacation by letting the other family members waiting the practice. She was unreasonable.

But next what I do is to admire her.

There is an old Chinese saying “property can never last for three generations”。 But Amy Chua did change it! Her parents came to U.S and suffered a tough life at the very beginning. They taught Amy math and piano in an extreme strict way when she was a kid. Under the influence of her parents, now Amy is frugal and pretty strict with her daughters and herself. They are the valuable points of her. Although she is so extreme on her parenting, she has the advisable ideas that the parents and the parents to be to learn.

Firstly, as parents, they couldn’t ignore their children and put all focus on their job. There is no excuse for not concerning their children. Except supervising her daughters, Amy Chua has to give lessons in university, write books and handle the family chores. She is so busy, but she doesn’t ignore the daughters.

Secondly, parents should be strict with their children especially when they are kids because kids lack of self-control. They should not indulge their children in internet or sleepovers.

Thirdly, parents should master some skills in parenting. As a matter of fact, there are so many Chinese parents who are strict with their children with no avail of success. Success can’t be totally copied, because some parents ignore the skills in parenting. When their children don’t follow their will or perform well enough to satisfy them, they will lose their temper and even beat their children, yes, of course, Amy Chua will be mad but she won’t beat her daughters, in this condition, she will be sober and wait until her daughters perform well enough. She learnt some music knowledge in her children’s class and supervised them patiently. She knew where to correct the mistakes and gave the children extraordinary success.

Tiger mother aroused a big heat in parenting and threw such an important issue for us to think about. Battle Hymn of Tiger Mother gives us really some enlightenment. Anyway, that’s a really unique experience in reading this book.

篇13:家有虎妈

我的妈妈是我们家的母虎,妈妈长得不胖,眼睛炯炯有神,像一颗颗乌黑的葡萄,他的嘴巴大大的,伶牙俐齿,脸圆圆的,像一个大苹果,她凶起来啊,让人害怕极了。

有一次弟弟想出去玩,便拉着我去开门,但妈妈之前再三交代让我们不要随便出去,怕遇到危险。这下子可撞到枪口了,妈妈听见了开门声,拿着衣架连忙跑来,凶巴巴的说:芳芳,你在干什么呢?我大惊失色的回答道:不是我,不是我,是弟弟拉着我去玩的。妈妈紧皱着眉头,大声的说道:你都这么大了,作为姐姐还不带好头。我被吓得只好往房间跑,心想:都怪弟弟,真是祸从天降啊!

还有一次,作业还没完成,我便迫不及待的想出去玩游戏,可是被妈妈阻拦了。虽然当时的情景,我无可奈何的,但我可不是这么容易就善罢甘休,正打算趁妈妈不注意的时候偷偷跑出去呢!看着妈妈转身向阳台走去,我偷偷的踮起脚,往门口跑去,但还没摸到门把手,妈妈就悄无声息的出现在我的身后,阴沉的问:你又想出去玩了?我只得缩了缩肩膀,认命的回房间啦!

这就是我的妈妈,虽然对我们很严厉,但是我明白的感受到她依旧很爱很爱着我们。

篇14:家有“虎妈”

我家有一只“老虎”,可不是真正的老虎,而是我的老妈。

妈妈有一对浓密的眉毛,一双双炯炯有神的“虎眼”。一张小却能发出200分贝声音的嘴。乍一看,额头上还印着一个比老虎还大的虎印。

有一次,我想出去玩,碰巧遇到了拦路虎——我的老妈。老妈先是问清了我的企图,然后以虎王的气势摇了摇头:“英语学了没?钢琴弹了没?作业做了没?晚饭吃了没?就知道玩……”妈妈又念起了她的“紧箍咒”。

“哼!我就要玩嘛。”

妈妈双手叉腰,纸老虎似的吓唬我:“你敢!哼哼……和我对着干的话,下场会很惨的!”

“我就要玩嘛。”

妈妈叹了口气:“哎。现在的孩子真难管,你是学生,精力要放在学习上,不能只想着玩……”随之而来的则是“虎泉眼”里喷出来的“泉水”。我真后悔没带把雨伞来挡挡。唉,“虎”妈不好惹啊!

平时,我的要求“虎”妈都能答应。当然,如果我提的要求太过分的话,妈妈也免不了从一只温顺可爱的幼虎变成一只凶巴巴、气冲冲的“母老虎”。这时的“虎妈”,更加惹不起了。长得像老虎,性格像老虎,外号是老虎,连她的霸气和行动都和老虎毫无差异。这就是我家的“虎妈”。

重庆大足县龙水二小(五二班)五年级:莫彩红

篇15:虎妈作文

人们常说:“父爱如山,

小时候,我一直认为妈妈属老虎的,因为在那时,我的眼里老虎是最凶的。记得妈妈不让我去别人家,但我总不听。有一次我去了别人家玩,没有和妈妈说,一直到很晚,我才回家。刚回到家,妈妈便劈头盖面地骂了我一通,骂我去别人家,骂我不长记性,边骂边打,打我时她经常是顺手拿起身边的东西就往我身上招呼,腰带、拖鞋,PVC管,都和我的身体有过零距离接触。有时,打的特别狠,她眼睛里射出的怒火仿佛能吞噬了我。如毒蛇一样的皮腰带,在我身上咬了一口又一口;如鳄鱼般的拖鞋,在我身上印了一个又一个花纹;如猫一样的PVC管,在我身上抓了一道有一道的“斑马线”,

从那天,妈妈再也没打过我。

现在,每当我做好一件事让妈妈满意时,她笑了,我哭了。从前的我,不懂事认为妈妈是后妈,不爱我。如今我明白了,她不让我去别人家是从安全角度考虑,怕我受到伤害。我感受到那棍棒下浓浓的爱,用心良苦的爱,那是一个

我们都拥有过妈妈给我们的爱,更多的时候我们活在爱中却不知爱,与爱擦肩而过,所以我们一定要抓住并珍惜爱。

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